As the debate over sexes is regarded as a critical issue in the modern feministic literary researches, it is more often exaggerated by feminists. This proposition is rooted in the western cultural discourse. In contrast the sexual relationship is a unique phenomenon and remains stable of family relations in Chinese culture. However, females are vulnerable and compromising throughout history. This inequality speaks for the lower status of women in old times. The paper reveals that the real cause is not humanism, but the social relations. So it is positive to reconstruct the modern morphological esthetics in eventually eliminating sexual debates.